There are decisions that we make that are GREAT at the time and as time continues that GREAT decision becomes Great... then grief... then not so great... then good... then not so good... then OH NO - WHAT HAVE I DONE....
Protect your heart to not hurt (purposely) and always to help... Self-preservation is necessary... We can only help when it's not directly hurting and negatively impacting us...
Have we asked the question 'Why do our hearts and minds need to be guarded???' and 'What do our hearts and minds need to be guarded from???' 'How come I can't guard myself?, I know me'